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Don't stay away from your ex because your mother says so, stay away because SCIENCE says so. A Kansas State University study determined that "cyclical relationships," in which a couple breaks up and then makes up, produce couples that make more impulsive decisions, such as moving in together or buying a pet. This leads, in turn, to deteriorating communication, lowered self-esteem, and higher uncertainty about what the future holds. One Gizmodo commenter isn't surprised, explaining, "This is exactly why after breaking up with my last girlfriend, I deleted her number, her e-mail and blocked her on Facebook." In light of recent music news, we're wondering if Rihanna and Chris Brown would do well to heed this sage relationship advice.
Have you ever gotten back with an ex?
It's all about the individual and your place in life and what you're looking for in a partner. I had a boyfriend who needed to learn the art of not making unilateral decisions when involved in a relationship and to be cognizant of just how much information to share with others concerning our private life. Pretty elementary you'd think, but sometimes your wants and needs have to be communicated in a tactful way - it's then that the partner has the opportunity to say yay or nay to your needs - it may take a "break-up" before they can come to a decision, or NOT. Change is possible, it's all in the individual. I'm still with him and the relationship is just that much better now.
Ok, if women were brought up to say “NO” and Guys “YES” and you still single after 7years ,,,plus,,, still calling whoever he left you for a bitch .... Then it’s time to ask the mirror on the wall... Get over it!! you’re a girl/ woman/ the better of the both sex – start saying yes to Fun, Yes to dare, start yes to the guy or girl down the road who’s weird – he maybe a scientist // or just a nice guy who doesn’t look like the rest of the world... Be original and pick someone as a partner that looks different from what you see on TV... Sorry, if I came off sounding mean – I’m just sick of men telling women how to act and feel... there’s no way a woman should be crying for a man... Just saying --- exercise some of that girl Power...
After my ex-boyfriend was broken me up in Christmas 2004, I can says, “Ex is a false lover.” I do not have time to beg him back because of he decided to leave me and move on to the bitch. I don’t care about him and don’t want to hear his news. So I am satisfied with being single for 7 years because of I know that there are not a lot right handsome men out there. And I don’t want to feel so tired of searching for the right man again.
If I had even tried to go back to the Ex., she and our five children which are now grown and out of the nest, would try and make me feel like a live in boy friend rather than the father.
All but one of our kids are bumbs and move back with mom from time to time, it would be like I'm living in mom's house and not mine.
She owns a house in a good area and so do I in another area about three miles apart. Funny thing is, she kept getting the Sheriffs after me until I moved out of town about 25 miles away from here and then she moves with in a mile from me and a 100 feet from my work of which I bought another house a little further away before she started causing trouble again.
She likes to feel that she has power over me but here, I have the law on my side this time. ;=)))
Beleave me when I say,"Once it's over,,,,, It's over.
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